The Clarity LabÂ
The Clarity-First system that shifts you out of survival mode and reconnects you with your calm, confident self — so you can move forward with no regrets.
If you’ve been feeling alone, unappreciated, or unsure what the future holds — you don’t need more “life hacks”.
You need clarity.
The Clarity Lab helps you understand what’s really running your relationship and your life — the invisible energetic agreements that keep repeating the same patterns — so you can finally see what has been holding you back from having the life you want AND what your next steps are.
This might be the first place you’ve ever been where you can honestly figure out why things are the way they are. And while that’s just the start, it's the part that is missing in SO much of what you read, or view on social media.Â
The Clarity Lab is where you will discover what got you here and what will get you to where you want to be in your relationship and your life.
This is where you begin to build a future that feels steady, peaceful, and bright.
Is The Clarity Lab Right for You?
It’s for you if:
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You’re a woman who has struggled in your relationship and you are ready to create something different for yourself moving forward.
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Whether you are married, separated, or divorced this will give you the tools you need to show up for differently for yourself and navigate the challenges you are facing with confidence.
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You’re ready to stop living in survival mode and get the peace and ease back into your life.
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You’re open to exploring your energy, emotions, mindset and beliefs as tools for change.
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You want to feel calm, confident, and clear about what’s next for you.
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You are ok with topics that include spiritual, scientific, and even some whoo whoo perspectives.Â
It’s not for you if:
✖️You’re waiting for someone else to change before you do.
✖️You want over-night results, aren’t willing to show up differently for yourself, or just want a place to vent about your partner.
✖️ You want surface-level communication tips.
✖️ You want to hold tightly to the victim card, or argue for your limitations. Sorry, we don’t do that here.Â
If this is speaking to you, you already know — this is your next step.
You care deeply about your relationship — but it’s been hard for a while.
There’s a disconnection you can’t seem to fix.
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Different versions of the same conflicts repeat over and over again.
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You feel like you are carrying the emotional weight of everything alone.
Some days you wonder how you got here.
Other days you just know something has to change — you just don’t know how to make that happen.
And you now understand what it means when you hear women say, “I’ve lost myself”
You’ve probably asked yourself the question, “Why can’t I get this figured out?”
You’re ready to do what it takes to figure it out and to move forward with calm, confidence, and truth.
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Why what used to work doesn’t work anymore…
When most of us imagined what our relationships would look like, we thought there would be partnership — shared effort, mutual care, and support.
But somewhere along the way, it started to feel uneven.
For decades, women have been told that love means sacrifice, patience, and understanding — even when it costs their peace.
That conditioning turned into feeling responsible for everything —managing emotions, holding things together, keeping the peace.
And when that became too heavy, the next wave of advice came:
“set better boundaries”, “say this instead of that”, “communicate differently”.
And if you’ve tried any of that, you know it doesn't work for long.
It was all “acting” — and it creates more hurt, distance and frustration when it doesn’t work.Â
That kind of surface change doesn’t touch the deeper issue —because it’s not just about words or rules.
It’s about energy.
Women who thrive in their relationships — and in every area of their lives —do so because they’re tuned into their own inner guidance system, and how they show up for themselves and others reflects that.
Instead of living in survival mode, they move through life with confidence.
They listen to what feels true, make decisions from clarity instead of fear, and create relationships that feel steady, supportive, and safe.
The Clarity Lab helps you reconnect to your own inner guidance system, so you can stop reacting to everything around you and start creating a life that feels good to you.
What is
The Clarity Lab?Â
Every Month:Â
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Monthly Clarity Deep Dive with Shari Kubinec – a new workshop released each month that will keep you on track with creating more of what you want in your life. December’s focus is on Creating Connection and Your Relationship Intuition: How to let your intuition guide you. And in January, the theme is Prosperity - the month will be filled with messages and tools to release the worry and allow in the abundance the Universe wants for you.Â
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New Tools and processes for taking you out of survival mode – Each month, new tools and practices added — guided processes to stop the spiral of stress and bring you back to your center - meditations, sound baths, somatic resets... all designed to help heal your heart and get you back on track.
For December, this will be huge to help with a daily release of the emotional charge that builds up during the holidays and resets your vibration to calm, grounded, and open — no matter where your relationship is at.
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A Live Q&AÂ Call each month so you always have access to support when you feel stuck.
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Access to a private community of women doing this work
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FREE Access to paid online events: As a member of The Clarity Lab you also receive FREE access to paid online events such as Vision and Vibe happening December 30th. If a vision board and an energy reset workshop had a baby, this would be it! This workshop will be $77 for non-members - but FREE for all members of The Clarity Lab.Â
