The Clarity Lab

The Clarity-First System that shifts you out of survival mode and reconnects you with your calm, confident self so you can move forward with no regrets.

If you feel alone, unsupported, unappreciated and unsure about how to move forward to create a life you love - you need The Clarity Lab.

Sign me up!

You care deeply about your relationship — but it’s been hard for a while.

There’s a disconnection you can’t seem to fix.
Different versions of the same conflicts repeat over and over again.
You feel like you are carrying the emotional weight of everything alone.

Some days you wonder how you got here.
Other days you just know something has to change — you just don’t know how to make that happen.

And you now understand what it means when you hear women say, “I’ve lost myself”

You’ve probably asked yourself the question,
“Why can’t I get this figured out?”

You’re ready to do what it takes to figure it out and to move forward with calm, confidence, and truth.

You care deeply about your relationship — but it’s been hard for a while.

There’s a disconnection you can’t seem to fix.
Different versions of the same conflicts repeat over and over again.
You feel like you are carrying the emotional weight of everything alone.

Some days you wonder how you got here.
Other days you just know something has to change — you just don’t know how to make that happen.

And you now understand what it means when you hear women say, “I’ve lost myself”

You’ve probably asked yourself the question,
“Why can’t I get this figured out?”

You’re ready to do what it takes to figure it out and to move forward with calm, confidence, and truth.

Why what used to work doesn’t work anymore…

When most of us imagined what our relationships would look like, we thought there would be partnership — shared effort, mutual care, and support.

But somewhere along the way, it started to feel uneven.

For decades, women have been told that love means sacrifice, patience, and understanding — even when it costs their peace.

That conditioning turned into feeling responsible for everything —managing emotions, holding things together, keeping the peace.

And when that became too heavy, the next wave of advice came:
“set better boundaries”, “say this instead of that”, “communicate differently”.

And if you’ve tried any of that, you know it doesn't work for long.
It was all “acting” — and it creates more hurt, distance and frustration when it doesn’t work.

That kind of surface change doesn’t touch the deeper issue —because it’s not just about words or rules.

It’s about energy.

Women who thrive in their relationships — and in every area of their lives —do so because they’re tuned into their own inner guidance system, and how they show up for themselves and others reflects that.

Instead of living in survival mode, they move through life with confidence.
They listen to what feels true, make decisions from clarity instead of fear, and create relationships that feel steady, supportive, and safe.

The Clarity Lab helps you reconnect to your own inner guidance system, so you can stop reacting to everything around you and start creating a life that feels good to you.

The Clarity Lab Is About You.

It’s a space where you get to focus on yourself —
This might be the first place you’ve ever been where you can honestly figure out why things are this way in your life. And while that’s just the start, it is the part that is missing in SO much of what you read, or view on social media.

The Clarity Lab is where you will discover what got you here and what will truly work for YOU so that your life starts to feel like yours again.

When you begin to see clearly — what drains you, what fulfills you, what you actually want —
you stop living in reaction and start creating on purpose.

This is where you begin to build a future that feels steady, peaceful, and bright.

I know what it feels like to be stuck between staying and leaving.

For years, I tried to “fix” my relationship by focusing on the problems we had.

I read every relationship book, tried every communication strategy, went to therapy, and still felt like I was walking on eggshells.

What finally changed everything wasn’t more effort — it was clarity.

A kind of clarity I didn’t know I was missing.

When I understood the deeper patterns — the energetic agreements running beneath the surface — how my own internal state was shaping my life – I stopped reacting from fear and started showing up in my life in a way that didn’t always say “me first”, but it did say, “Me too.”

Now I teach women the same process inside The Clarity Lab —

a monthly space designed to help you reconnect to yourself, shift your energy, and see your next steps clearly.

A simple, repeatable Framework you can apply to any challenge: The C.I.R.C.L System

The 5-step process that will change you and your relationship patterns inside The Clarity Lab

Step 1:Get Clear— See what’s actually running your relationship: mentally, emotionally and spiritually. These are the invisible agreements you do not realize you have signed. And until you write new ones, the patterns keep repeating. But first, you need to see them clearly.

This is not like a typical approach you would learn in therapy. Instead of one-size-fits-all, it is specifically designed to help you understand your unique situation in a whole new way.

Step 2: Interrupt the Pattern — Most people try to create change in their life by just trying something different. But when the energy you bring to a new effort is still the same, the results are the same. You will learn how to change the way you feel, let go of old resentments and bring a new confidence to how you approach things. Anything that comes from survival mode will only create more reasons to be in survival mode.

Step 3: Reset + Redesign— You are going to create new energetic agreements that reflect the woman who thrives. You design your life with joy, certainty and self trust. This takes only minutes a day and helps change the momentum from heavy and stressful to light, peaceful and optimistic.

Step 4: Create it — Bringing your new energy into real-life moments takes practice: how you respond to your partner and your family, how you open the bills, how you see yourself in the mirror - and how you carry yourself through the day. When the pattern looks different, others can’t respond to you the same way anymore. You change the energetic script, and then things change.

Step 5: Love it— Love is the frequency that locks in the changes you want to see. Appreciate what’s working, notice the ease returning, and celebrate the woman you’re becoming. From this grounded, confident place, trust rebuilds on its own. Joy feels available again. And life starts to reflect the peace and power you’ve deserved all along.

Im IN!

What is

The Clarity Lab?

Every Month:

Monthly Clarity Deep Dive with Shari Kubinec – a new workshop released each month that will keep you on track with creating more of what you want in your life. December’s focus in on Reconnecting for the holidays. The Energy of Ease: How to Reset Your Vibration and Let Connection Feel Natural Again.
Pattern Interrupter – Each month, you’ll receive new Pattern Interrupters — a variety of guided processes to stop the spiral of stress and bring you back to your center. For December, this will help you with a daily release of the emotional charge that builds up during the holidays and resets your vibration to calm, grounded, and open — so connection feels easy again.
A Live Q&A so you always have access to support when you feel stuck.
Access to a private community of women doing this work
FREE Access to paid online events: As a member of The Clarity Lab you also receive FREE access to paid online events such as Vision and Vibe happening December 30th. If a vision board and an energy reset workshop had a baby, this would be it! This workshop will be $77 for non-members - but FREE for all members of The Clarity Lab.

If you’re ready to stop spinning in uncertainty and start creating a life that you can look forward to living, — join us inside The Clarity Lab.

Join The Clarity Lab

The first 25 Founding Members will get their membership for $47/month for as long as they remain members!

And we have made The Clarity Lab risk free - zero commitment. This means you can cancel your membership anytime. (But we doubt you’ll want to.)

Join The Clarity Lab Now!

The Clarity Lab

The Clarity-First System that shifts you out of survival mode and reconnects you with your calm, confident self so you can move forward with no regrets.

If you feel alone, unsupported, unappreciated and unsure about how to move forward to create a life you love - you need The Clarity Lab.

You care deeply about your relationship — but it’s been hard for a while.

There’s a disconnection you can’t seem to fix.Different versions of the same conflicts repeat over and over again.You feel like you are carrying the emotional weight of everything alone.

Some days you wonder how you got here.Other days you just know something has to change — you just don’t know how to make that happen.

And you now understand what it means when you hear women say, “I’ve lost myself”

You’ve probably asked yourself the question, “Why can’t I get this figured out?”

You’re ready to do what it takes to figure it out and to move forward with calm, confidence, and truth.

You care deeply about your relationship — but it’s been hard for a while.

There’s a disconnection you can’t seem to fix.Different versions of the same conflicts repeat over and over again.You feel like you are carrying the emotional weight of everything alone.

Some days you wonder how you got here.Other days you just know something has to change — you just don’t know how to make that happen.

And you now understand what it means when you hear women say, “I’ve lost myself”

You’ve probably asked yourself the question, “Why can’t I get this figured out?”

You’re ready to do what it takes to figure it out and to move forward with calm, confidence, and truth.

Why what used to work doesn’t work anymore…

When most of us imagined what our relationships would look like, we thought there would be partnership — shared effort, mutual care, and support.

But somewhere along the way, it started to feel uneven.

For decades, women have been told that love means sacrifice, patience, and understanding — even when it costs their peace.

That conditioning turned into feeling responsible for everything —managing emotions, holding things together, keeping the peace.

And when that became too heavy, the next wave of advice came:“set better boundaries”, “say this instead of that”, “communicate differently”.

And if you’ve tried any of that, you know it doesn't work for long.It was all “acting” — and it creates more hurt, distance and frustration when it doesn’t work.

That kind of surface change doesn’t touch the deeper issue —because it’s not just about words or rules.

It’s about energy.

Women who thrive in their relationships — and in every area of their lives —do so because they’re tuned into their own inner guidance system, and how they show up for themselves and others reflects that.

Instead of living in survival mode, they move through life with confidence.They listen to what feels true, make decisions from clarity instead of fear, and create relationships that feel steady, supportive, and safe.

The Clarity Lab helps you reconnect to your own inner guidance system, so you can stop reacting to everything around you and start creating a life that feels good to you.

The Clarity Lab Is About You.

It’s a space where you get to focus on yourself —This might be the first place you’ve ever been where you can honestly figure out why things are this way in your life. And while that’s just the start, it is the part that is missing in SO much of what you read, or view on social media.

The Clarity Lab is where you will discover what got you here and what will truly work for YOU so that your life starts to feel like yours again.

When you begin to see clearly — what drains you, what fulfills you, what you actually want —you stop living in reaction and start creating on purpose.

This is where you begin to build a future that feels steady, peaceful, and bright.

I know what it feels like to be stuck between staying and leaving.

For years, I tried to “fix” my relationship by focusing on the problems we had.

I read every relationship book, tried every communication strategy, went to therapy, and still felt like I was walking on eggshells.

What finally changed everything wasn’t more effort — it was clarity.

A kind of clarity I didn’t know I was missing.

When I understood the deeper patterns — the energetic agreements running beneath the surface — how my own internal state was shaping my life – I stopped reacting from fear and started showing up in my life in a way that didn’t always say “me first”, but it did say, “Me too.”

Now I teach women the same process inside The Clarity Lab —

a monthly space designed to help you reconnect to yourself, shift your energy, and see your next steps clearly.

A simple, repeatable Framework you can apply to any challenge: The C.I.R.C.L System

The 5-step process that will change you and your relationship patterns inside The Clarity Lab

Step 1:Get Clear— See what’s actually running your relationship: mentally, emotionally and spiritually. These are the invisible agreements you do not realize you have signed. And until you write new ones, the patterns keep repeating. But first, you need to see them clearly.

This is not like a typical approach you would learn in therapy. Instead of one-size-fits-all, it is specifically designed to help you understand your unique situation in a whole new way.

Step 3: Reset + Redesign— You are going to create new energetic agreements that reflect the woman who thrives. You design your life with joy, certainty and self trust. This takes only minutes a day and helps change the momentum from heavy and stressful to light, peaceful and optimistic.

What is

The Clarity Lab?

Every Month:

A Live Q&A so you always have access to support when you feel stuck.

Access to a private community of women doing this work

If you’re ready to stop spinning in uncertainty and start creating a life that you can look forward to living, — join us inside The Clarity Lab.

The first 25 Founding Members will get their membership for $47/month for as long as they remain members!

And we have made The Clarity Lab risk free - zero commitment. This means you can cancel your membership anytime. (But we doubt you’ll want to.)

Join Our Free Trial

There’s a disconnection you can’t seem to fix.
Different versions of the same conflicts repeat over and over again.
You feel like you are carrying the emotional weight of everything alone.

Some days you wonder how you got here.
Other days you just know something has to change — you just don’t know how to make that happen.

You’ve probably asked yourself the question,
“Why can’t I get this figured out?”

There’s a disconnection you can’t seem to fix.
Different versions of the same conflicts repeat over and over again.
You feel like you are carrying the emotional weight of everything alone.

Some days you wonder how you got here.
Other days you just know something has to change — you just don’t know how to make that happen.

You’ve probably asked yourself the question,
“Why can’t I get this figured out?”

And when that became too heavy, the next wave of advice came:
“set better boundaries”, “say this instead of that”, “communicate differently”.

And if you’ve tried any of that, you know it doesn't work for long.
It was all “acting” — and it creates more hurt, distance and frustration when it doesn’t work.

Instead of living in survival mode, they move through life with confidence.
They listen to what feels true, make decisions from clarity instead of fear, and create relationships that feel steady, supportive, and safe.

It’s a space where you get to focus on yourself —
This might be the first place you’ve ever been where you can honestly figure out why things are this way in your life. And while that’s just the start, it is the part that is missing in SO much of what you read, or view on social media.

When you begin to see clearly — what drains you, what fulfills you, what you actually want —
you stop living in reaction and start creating on purpose.